Double M's
Life has always been a huge roller coaster ride.
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by: mira malik

all grown-up?

now that we're all grown-up, atleast we think we are. simple things get so much complicated. small issues we fight over. are we really growing older and wiser or is it the other way round? we've become much more sensitive to what others say about us. just paranoia. maybe because of the bad experience that we had, that's why we tend to over-analyzed, misjudged, mistook and assumed that things will turn out bad. or are we too emotionally attached to someone that what they say and do matters so much that it will affect us emotionally and physically. we have put our expectations to these people because we've known them for some time. and if they did not do or say what we expected of them, we sulk on it and all the negative things get into our head. asking whyyy. firstly, we get angry and they thought we are angry for no apparent reason. secondly, we get tired and realise that they just won't get it so, we silently keep it and give them the 'ultimate cold sandwich'. then, we hold grudges and eventually will take revenge, doing or saying the same thing. see. when we grow older, we hide and hold on too much of our emotions that will be harmful to others and especially to ourselves.
so, the thing here i want to bring across is that being all grown-up is not easy. if i have a chance to say something to those younger kidlings, i'd say, "believe me kids, you will not have much fun being an adult as compared to being a kid. so go have fun now, don't be deprive later." :)